So my first year of college well what can I say about it. I went to a lot of parties drank a little bit, study hard, and tried to hang out with friends at the same time. Well I wouldn't call all of them my friends. Some were phoney and fake and most of them were are not close as we were in the beginning. Realise that all people aren't your friends some are assholes who just love to see you miserable. Oh let's not forget the phoney guys I met they spit game to you and then you realise that they only want to fuck. Most men are like that in college. Some act like girls and play with you feelings, but they still want to fuck you just like the jerks. After going through everything my first year in the end I learned some guys just want to get in your pants, they get what they want and never call you or text you, friends arent who they really are, and the people who really care about you will be with you at the end. So look around who is still standing with you.